My experience is that Boards think more falls under their responsibility than it really does, and they spend too much time going over operational discussions at board meetings and not enough time on (a) forward-thinking strategic brainstorming, and (b) widening their interactions with the community - their "ambassador" role.
First ask, "Is this something that could be handled well by staff? If so, let's trust our capable staff. If not, let's express our worries as CRITERIA for the outcomes of staff action, but not dictation of how they should act."
THE BOARD'S JOB is four-fold:
1. Oversee the effectiveness of programs, finances, and the executive director's relationship with the board.
2. Set strategic direction and 3-5 big goals for the organization
3. Spend lots of time being an ambassador and fundraiser in the community
4. Provide a safe, constructive sounding-board for the executive director to turn to for problem-solving and support.
FINANCIAL OVERSIGHT: We need a quick checklist (which I'm happy to post) of what things a board should oversee -- but it's work that can be done in a sub-group, and work that only has to be done a few times a year - NOT at every meeting.
PROGRAM OVERSIGHT: We need to define what "good outcomes" look like for the people we help, then ask our capable staff to tell us the best way to get there, and have once or twice-a-year monitoring conversations to ask "how do we know if we're achieving what we hope to?" Boards need to have a good hard discussion with themselves, and with their executives, to determine where to stay OUT of program business - for example, do we need to approve restructuring of staff jobs, or do we just need to ask our executive if s/he needs (or doesn't need!) support in thinking it through.
EXECUTIVE DIRECTOR OVERSIGHT: Don't ever go more than a year without providing our EDs with organized board feedback and performance evaluation. They deserve to know how they're doing, just like we want them to give staff annual evaluations. BUT don't evaluate an ED on things you haven't set as goals in advance - whether it's the job description, or specific targets you have set for the agency. The evaluation should be a no-surprises event, and it should be based on YEAR-ROUND, TWO-WAY DIALOGUE between the ED and board chair or executive committee about how things are going. Each evaluation should end with organizational and professional development goals for the upcoming year, so both the ED and board know what the next evaluation will be based on.
Besides the formal evaluation, it is the BOARD CHAIR'S JOB to craft a healthy two-way partnership with the executive director (since the board chair speaks for the full board in executing the role of job supervision). Yes, the ED should help co-create that role, but should not have to be the only one initiating an ongoing dialogue!